Lilliana Carrillo
Walcher
Never
Doubt Yourself
It is funny how
I am twenty years old, and this is the first time I am actually thinking of the
social class my family and I belong to. When I was growing up, I remember
having the five basic needs of life a home, food, clothes, healthcare, school,
and sanitation. I also grew up with a loving and caring family that has always
been there for me. My family is made up of my parents and two sisters making our
home a place full of laugher and joy. However, now that I am thinking about the
social class my family belongs to I am realizing that as an eight year old girl
I did think of social class without even knowing. As an eight year old girl, I
always asked my mom why my dad worked a ridiculous amount of hours. I would
complain about seeing my dad only for an hour before I went to bed. I remember
getting excited when it was the weekend because I would think I would spend
more time with my dad, however, I would see him for the same amount of time
because he also worked weekends. I remember my dad was not able to go to
important events such as my graduations, family reunions, mass, recreational
activities because of his job. During my years in elementary school, I had a
hard time understanding why my dad thought work was more important than his
family. Fortunately, when I started middle school I understood that my dad did
love his family and the only reason why he was working a ridiculous amount of
hours was to give his family a better lifestyle than what he had growing up.
With this being said, social class is very important to society and most people
unconsciously think of it.
As I was reading Americas Four Middle classes, I started thinking what middle class
my family and I belong to. After giving it some thought, I realized that my
family and I belong to the anxious middle class. The anxious middle class is
neither affluent nor poor (Morin, pg. 8). People that belong to the anxious
middle class have family incomes of 50,000 dollars or more, are employed full
time, and are most likely homeowners (Morin, pg. 9). My parents are United
States residents that came to the United States from Mexico seeking a better
lifestyle. My sisters and I were born and raised in the United States. My
parents were not able to go to college because in Mexico their families were
very poor that would put their son and daughters to work at a very young age.
After my parents got married, they became United State residents and decide to
come to United States seeking a better lifestyle to start a family. My dad was
very fortunate and currently is working full time at a factory that pays him
fairly well he also puts in a lot of extra hours sometimes adding up to 50
hours a week. My mom has always been a stay home mom she was always taking care
of her three girls and babysat to add to the family income. My family income
has been around 55,000 dollars in a year and the family has always had health
insurance. My father is a homeowner he finished paying the house my family and
I currently live in around 15 years ago. These are the facts that made me make
the choice that my family belongs to the anxious middle class.
The type of social class one belongs
to defines the person’s lifestyle. A person’s lifestyle is basically the choices he or she makes about how to
live life. My family and I try to live a
life where we do not spend a lot of money on luxuries because we do not want to
spend more money than what we have. Home amenities are bought at Meijer,
Target, Wal-Mart, Home Depot, and Menards. These businesses offer home
amenities at great prices that allow my family to stay on our budget. We also
love to go out to eat as a family to a restaurant once a week, which is usually
on Sundays. Going out to eat as a family has always been a family tradition to
have family bonding time and it’s nice being able to spend time with the
family. The restaurants we visit every week are Olive Garden, Fridays, and Red
Robin. I know my parents would like to take us out to eat more often, but they
cannot because that would be exceeding my parents’ budget. I have always
attended public school and education has always been very important. In the
article The Burdens of Working –Class
Youth, I can totally relate to Brandon because my parents told me what he
was told when growing up education was the path to “the land of the working
honey” (Silva, pg. 1). My parents have always told my sisters and I that
education was the key to success and have always pushed us to do great in
school. Another important factor of my lifestyle is having a part time job. I
started working when I was sixteen to help pay for my cellphone, clothes, gas,
car insurance, and school. My older sister also started working at the age of
sixteen to reduce the amount of money my parents spend. Family vacations are
taken every summer to Mexico, Florida, California, or Wisconsin. Every year we
choose a different place and we go for two weeks. On the other hand, another
important aspect of lifestyle is the people one associates with. For example,
our family friends are individuals who like my parents decided to come to the
United States for a better lifestyle. All of these people have jobs that do not
require a college degree but that do require a lot of physical labor. My
friends are usually people I met in school, work, or church. My friends and I
have a similar type of lifestyle because they also belong to the anxious middle
class. For instance, all of my friends have a part time or full time job and
are currently going to a college or university. Their parents did not go to
college and are trying to go to school to have a better lifestyle a couple of
years from now. Class consciousness
understanding the social class one belongs to. Plays a major role on my
lifestyle and group of friends I associate with.
The assumptions a person makes about
what is morally correct and wrong is based on the social class he or she belongs
to is known as ideology. My ideology
based on life experiences I had when growing up with my family in an anxious
middle class system. Even though my parents have been making enough money to
give us a normal lifestyle, I have seen them go through moments of distress.
For instance, the factory where my dad works in requires a lot of physical
activity, and he would sometimes come home hurt because of all the lifting,
pushing, and running. It was very sad seeing my dad in pain, and the next
morning he still had to wake up early to go to work. Another stressful factor
was when the factory fired over 100 workers in 2008. Fortunately, he was one of
the few employees that were not unemployed, however, present day he is worried
that next time it might be him.
Seeing
my dad work 50 hours a week definitely has shaped the way I view the world. My
dreams and goals are based on the opportunities available to me according to
the class position I was born in, which is also known as life chances. My goal in life is to go to college to study
Elementary Education. After I graduate, I want to find a job as a second grade
teacher. My family definitely wants my sisters and me to go to college, so we
can have a career that does not require us to work as much as my dad. However,
I do know that many of the decisions I make regarding school are limited to the
social class I belong to. For instance, I decided to go to Elgin Community
College for two years to take the general classes required for my major. I made
this choice because it was cheaper and something my parents were able to
afford. After Elgin Community College, I decided to transfer to Roosevelt
because of the academic scholarship I was awarded for having a 4.0 GPA at Elgin
Community College. Roosevelt is paying for more than half of my tuition which
is awesome because that has helped my family I with tuition. All of these
decisions have been made because of my family’s income. If money would never
been a concern my first choice was to attend Northwestern University which I
was accepted in right after high school. However, it was too expensive and my
parents would have had to take out a huge loan which my parents thought was a
bad idea. I definitely want to finish school to have a better lifestyle than
the one I grew up in. I am not complaining of the lifestyle I grew up in and
currently have, but I do want something better to make my parents proud and let
them know I did took advantage of the opportunities they gave to me by coming
to this country.
Clearly, in the United States
individuals are classified into a distinct group based on their economic status
known as stratification. Money is a
huge factor when stratifying individuals to a specific group. The group that
has more money will have more power than the group who has a small amount of
money. Since individuals are stratified based on their income, social justice
does not exist in America. After studying social justice in class, I do not
believe it is strongly implemented in America. As nation we have come a long
way trying to provide equality but more can be done to make everyone feel like
they belong. Individuals are always looked down upon because of their race,
socioeconomic class, sexual orientation, career, religion, and age. I do not
believe that social justice exist in a country where social classes exist. The
social class one is born into defines the life chances one will have in life.
People can only set goals that are realistic to their current lifestyle.
Another important reason why social justice is not implemented in the United
States is because people that belong to the same social class judge each other
based on race, religion, sexual orientation, and etc. Solidarity being able to understands members from the same or
different social class. Solidarity is the first step for social justice to be
greatly implemented being able to understand others. Having an open mind that
allows one to understand where others come from and lifestyle is the key for
equity.